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Books: 

• Inside Out by Larry Crabb

• Perfecting Ourselves to Death by Dr. Richard Winter

• Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores by Diane Langberg

• The Deepest Place by Curt Thompson

• This Too Shall Last by KJ Ramsey

• When Life Goes Dark by Dr Richard Winter

• Wounded Heart by Dan Allender

• Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You by Jenara Nerenberg

Podcasts: 

• The Allender Center Podcast

• The Place We Find Ourselves by Adam Young

• Unruffled by Janet Lansbury

Books:

• Anatomy of the Soul by Curt Thompson

• Boundaries for Your Soul by Alison Cook & Kimberly Miller

• Try Softer by Aundi Kobler

• Roots of Sorrow by Dr. Richard Winter

• The Lies We Believe: Renew Your Mind and Transform Your Life by Dr. Chris Thurman

• Telling Yourself the Truth: Find Your Way Out of Depression, Anxiety, Fear, Anger, and Other Common Problems by Applying the Principles of Misbelief Therapy by William Backus and Marie Chapian

Websites: 

• Christian Association for Psychological Studies:

  https://caps.net

Books:

• Changes that Heal by Henry Cloud

• Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Pete Scazzero

• Strong Like Water by Audi Kober

• Bold Love, by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman

Books:

• Lament For a Son: Nicholas Wolterstorff

• Walking with God Through Grief and Suffering by Timothy Keller

Articles:

• The Hidden Hope of Lament by Dr. Dan Allender:
  https://theallendercenter.org/2016/06/hidden-hope-lament/

Books

• Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson

• Boundaries by Henry Cloud & John Townsend

• Created for Connection: Dr. Sue Johnson

• Hold Me Tight: Dr. Sue Johnson

• The Healing Path by Dan Allender

• Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair New Edition by Dave Carder

• The Meaning of Marriage by Tim and Kathy Keller

• Intimate Allies – Dr. Dan Allender

• Bold Love, by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman

• The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans

Books

• Habits of the Household by Justin Whittle Earley

• Parenting from the Inside Out by Dan Siegel & Mary Hartzell

• Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas

• Raising Worry-Free Girls by Sissy Goff

• The Connected Child by Karyn Purvis

• The Connected Parent by Karyn Purvis, PhD and Lisa C. Qualls

• What To Do When You Worry Too Much by Dawn Huebner Parenting with Love and Logic: Teaching Children Responsibility by Foster Cline and Jim Fay

• Freeing Your Child From Anxiety by Dr. Tamar E. Chancy

• The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

Articles:

• Lessons Learned in Parenting Adult Children https://theallendercenter.org/2022/02/lessons-learned-in-parenting-adult-children/

Podcast:

• Raising Boys & Girls

Books:

• Surfing for God: Discovering the Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle by Michael John Cusick

• Unwanted by Jay Stringer

• Your Sexually Addicted Spouse" by Marsha Means and Barbara Steffens

• Bold Love by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman

Articles:

• Stop Sexual Addiction
  http://www.stopsexualaddiction.com

• When Your Husband Looks at Porn https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/husband-porn/

Books:

• The Great Sex Rescue by Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach, Joanna Sawatsky, Sheila Wray Gregoire

• Heavy Burdens: Seven Ways LGBTQ Christians Experience Harm in the Church by Bridget Eileen Rivera (Christian perspective)

Website:

• Center for Faith, Sexuality, & Gender: https://www.centerforfaith.com/

Books:

• Ravenous Wolves: Shepherding the Church in an Age of Narcissism by Michael Coggin

• Redeeming Power by Diane Langberg

• When Narcissism Comes to Church by Chuck DeGroat

• When Pleasing You is Killing Me by Les Carter

• The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse, by David Johnson and Jeff Van Vonderen

• Healing Spiritual Abuse, by Ken Blue

• The Betrayal Bond, by Patrick Carne, PhD

• I Quit, by Geri and Peter Scazzero

• Bold Love, by Dan Allender and Tremper Longman

• Toxic Faith, by Stephen Arterburn and Jack Felton

Podcasts:

• The Allender Center Spiritual Abuse Series

• Holy/Hurt Podcast by Hillary L. McBride
  

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